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Some people think that we should keep away from others to improve our relationship, because being away from people remind us of how important they are. Other think we should always stay with others to have a good relationship because we can communicate with them more often. What do you think? People consider various principles of their relationship according to their characteristics and experiences. In general, with respect to these different principles, regulating relationships can be difficult. In my opinion, we should not see the relationship black and white. On the contrary, this should be considered a spectrum by which we have to find the situation in which both sides’ contentment be achieved. In the following paragraphs, I will elaborate on my arguments. To begin with, our communications are defined by our acquaintances’ needs and that those of ours. To put it simply, individuals’ expectations of relations diverge from each other’s. Therefore, they should balance out. For instance, I know of two of my friends which theirwhose ideas about friendship was not parallel. Although one of them expected to be in touch every day, the other one was did not interested in communication in this way and she thought there was no need to talk to her every day. In other words, their relationship was annoying for both of them, because the expectations from both sides were not satisfied. Next, I think both keeping yourself away and staying with others can be interpreted differently by people. If you try not to not communicating communicate for a while, this actionit can be construed in two ways: you either are not interested in this relationship or need isolation/some space for a while, so they try to respect your need. Moreover, if you want to be always/constantly connected with them, some of them might interpret that it as you are suffering from lack of affection. In that case, you want to fulfill your need through an inappropriate relationship of which they have a different aim. To conclude, I strongly believe that at first of any relationship, we have to talk about our aims and its objectives of that. We should remember that people cannot read your mind, so we should discuss our needs and our discontent with relations. Finally, I wholeheartedly believe that the mainstay of a desirable relationship is respecting the differences. از دل برود ھر آنکھ از دیده برفت Out of sight out of mind Absence makes the heart grow fonder دوری دوستی