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It is important for children to learn the difference between right and wrong at an early age. Punishment is necessary to help them learn this distinction. Childhood is a very important stage in life and the way that parents deal with them it will determine their children's personality behavior and treatment in future. Certainly all parents assign a huge amount of time and energy to teaching children how to behave. But some of them don’t know the right method and they don’t achieve the result that they wished for. For instance, some actions like physical or emotional spiritual punishments or having extra/unrealistic exceeded expectations from them in detection of wrong from right in early ages. Although However, I think that’s an advantage or even essential for them but with over expectation and putting pressure parents can cause deeply entrenched problems for their future life. Another method of punishment that could be useful is to show that if we praise them for a good decision or a positive deed work we can also punish them for a wrong decision or a non admireable work or as the saying goes "we give them a taste of their own medicine." Anyway, in my estimation sooner or later children will be able to see the difference between right and wrong and parents determine when it happens with the decision that if they want to be supportive or they want to be punishers and make children to put their trusts in on someone else. We should know the fact that children become what we are not what we want.